What constitutes a "win" for you? What does success look like?
Is it more Twitter followers? More traffic on your newsletter? A higher income?
Is it doing the best you can, regardless of the outcome? Sticking to your values? Finding opportunity in setbacks?
The problem with some of these is that success is dependent on external sources. Your success is directly tied to conditions outside of your control. The others however are fully within your control; the conditions of success are entirely dependent on internal sources.
Why should your success and your happiness be reliant on others?